Single parenting has its challenges. But let’s get realistic, we have a job to do and it has to be done! Right! If you have children at home or around you that you gave birth to or assumed responsibility for via adoption or association, then no matter what the state of affairs in your life, it all comes second, you have to stay on course, the children come first and their need for a safe home, meals, love have to be met first.
They need to feel like a blessing in your life and not a curse. They need to be molded into responsible citizens. They need to find themselves and carry on the journey called life with you as a parent; you need to be there for them. It matters not whether you are male or female, married or single; if you are a single parent you know it. And before you decide to go out and look for that person that will change your status accept your position, set the family on course then go out and look for your partner. As not to be in control with set standards will result in the children being lost. If that happens, it can be destructive to the innocent lives that you have to guide. Being single is not a curse it’s a part of life that we have to accept, before we can change.
